殴打儿童(Beating children)

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itisquitemonforparentstobeattheirchildren,becausetheythinkeatingisagoodwaytomakechildrenlearnandbehavewell.oneofmyneighborsmadeaverystrictdemandonhissonandscoldedhimbitterlyorsmackedhimwheneverhewaslazyordisobedient.tojustifywhathedid,hesaid,”sparetherodandruinthechild.”

actuallybeatingisaviolentwayoftreatingchildren.itdoesmoreharmandcausesmorehurtthangoodtochildren’sphysicalandpsychologicalhealth.however,beatingchildrenismonourrenceinourlife.manychildrenbeedisablebecausetheirparentshitthemtoohard.somelosttheirhearingandsomebecamelame.somechildrendevelopaninternalhatredfortheirparentsandprotestbyrunningawayfromhome.othersmaybeesofearfuloftheirparentsthattheytrembleatthesightoftheirangryparents.amother,forexample,evenwentsofarastobeathersontodeathbecauseshewasnotsatisfiedwithhisstudy.likewise,itisnotunusualthatthechildmurderedhisparentsbecauseoftheextremecontradictionbetweenthem.howcanchildrenlearnandgrowhealthilyundersuchcircumstance?

quiteoftenparentswillbetornbypangsofregretandremorseaftertheyhavebeatentheirchildren.theyfeelverysadintherestoftheirlives.butitisalreadytoolate.howcantheybringtheirhandicappedchildbacktohealthyone?howcantheyrelievepainsintheirchildren’sheartsoeasily?wecansaybeatinghurtsbothchildrenandparents.itisabsolutelyabadwaytomakechildrenlearnandbehavewell.

exactlyspeaking,childrenarealsohumanbeings.theyhaveself-respectandshouldberespected.parentsshouldunderstandandguidethembyadvising,persuadingandreasoning.theymaycriticizethemwithouthurtingtheirself-respect,withoutcrushingthem.butparentsshouldneverresorttotheviolent,inhumanewayofbeating!