避免被误解(Avoid Misunderstanding)

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"whydotheykeepmisunderstandingme?"weoftenhearpeopleplain.misunderstandingseemstobeoneofthemostdisturbingissuesininterpersonalrelationships.weoftenseehowitunderminestheharmoniousrelationshipsbetweenpeople.

severalfactorscontributetomisunderstanding.first,peoplewithdifferentpersonalandculturalbackgroundsmayhavediverseperspectivesininterpretingonebehavior.second,thelanguageweuseasavehicleofconveyingthoughtcanbeambiguous,andvariouswaysofdecoding(解码)wordsmayresultinbarriersinmunication.third,misunderstandingoursbecauseofalackofmutualtrust.ifyouhaveprejudice(偏见)againstsomeone,whateverhesaysmaysoundiiiintentionedtoyou.

havinggonesofarintheexplorationofthecausesofmisunderstanding,wecaneasilyarriveatthewaystoavoidthem.firstly,weshouldbebroadmindedandbetolerantofthedifferencesamongpeople.secondly,weshouldbeaurateandappropriateinourhandleoflanguage,avoidingmisleadingwords.thirdly,weshouldbeconstructiveandpatientindealingwithpeople.ifwetryhardenough,therewillbemoreunderstandingandlessmisunderstandinginthisworld.