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DearJohn,

IhavebeenseriouslylookingbackuponourrelationshipandgettingveryclearonwhatIneedanddesireoutofarelationship.

TheconclusionIhaveetoisthatwearetoodifferentinbothourpersonalityandourdesiredlifestylestobeabletosuessfullylivetogetherwithjoy,bliss,goodmunication,andinteraction.

Thisisnotaboutyouoraboutme"winningorlosing",oraboutoneofusbeingwrong--itisabouttwowaysofbeing...whichdonotfulfilleachother,otogether.ThoughIhadbeenopentohavingyouvisitwiththethoughtthatpossiblywecould'try'again,afterthinkingaboutitalot,Irealizethatitisnotagoodidea.Iamveryclearthatwearenotthe'right'peopleforeachotheratthistimeinourlives.

Pleasefiveyourself,andme,forany'mistakes'wemadealongtheway...andrememberthatwebothhavegrownimmenselythroughbeingtogether...butthetimehasetomoveon.

SobasicallywhatIamsayingisthatIwouldliketo'cancel'myinvitationforyoutovisit.Ifeelatthistime,thatIneedtomoveonwithmylife,andhavingyoueandvisitwouldnotserveanypositivepurpose.Youneedtoaeptthatthisrelationshipisoverandopenyourselfuptoreceivingtheblessingsoftheuniverse...

Ithinkwebothneedtoletgoofthepast,begratefulforwhatwehadforatime,learnfromourexperiences,andmoveonfromthere.

DearestJohn,wehavebeenthroughalottogether...Ihavealearnedalotaboutmyself,asyouhavelearntalotaboutyourself.Atthispoint,wearebothreadytograduatetothenextlevelinarelationship...Whatwehavelearned,whetherwhileweweretogether,orwhetherafter,throughlookingbackonhowwe'operated'together,willserveusinourfuturerelationships.

Ithasbeenmyexperience,thatallrelationshipsthatendaresimplyopeningthedoortoanotherlevelofjoy,andabetterrelationshipbuiltonwhatwehavelearntinthepast.SoIknowandtrustthatthereissomeoneouttherewhowillsupportyouinyourgrowthwhilelovingyouexactlythewayyouare...whichissomethingthatwewerenotdoingforeachother.Iconstantlyjudgedandcriticizedyou,inthesamemannerthatyoujudgedandcriticizedme...Outthereistheperfectpersonforyouthatwillloveyouandnotfindasinglethingtocriticizeaboutyouinthesamewaythatyouwillnotfindasinglethingtocriticizeaboutthem...Youwillaeptherassheis,evenwhileseeingthatsheisnot"perfect".

Donotseethisaslosingsomething,butratherashavinggainedknowledgeandwisdom...Everythingthatyoulearnedfromusbeingtogether,aswellasfromusbeingseparated,youwillbeabletoputinpracticeinyournextrelationshiptoavoidthetrapsthatwegotinto.

EVERYTHINGALWAYSWORKSOUTFORTHEBEST,andthisisnoexception.Trustinyourself,trustintheUniverse,trustinthepowerofLovethatrulesourlives.Pleasedon’tgetintofeelingsorryforyourselfandwantingto'enditall'.Rather,thankGodforthelearningexperience,andaskfortheopennesstorecognizetheblessingsinyourlife.Theyarethere...openyourselfuptobeingyou,aeptingyourselfpletelywithoutjudgment,andlovingyourselfunconditionally.

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