Happiness

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Happiness

1.Whetheroneishappyornotisdeciderby                       

2.Tobehappy,weshouldtryto                            

3.Tobehappy,weshouldtrytoavoid                                

Happinesshasbeendefinedasbothpleasurereceivedandgiven.Tosometheytendtobemorehappinesswhentheyareonthereceivingend,whentheyarebenefitingfromtheserviceoramaterialgiftofanother.Howevermanyothersfeelthathappinessesfromgiving.Togiveofonesselfcanbethemostjoyfulexperience.Therearemanywaystogiveofourselves.Onewayinwhichmanygiveofthemselvesisthroughlove,eitherfortheirchildren(whichisaspecialsourceofhappinessallitsown)orforthefellowman.Imyselfhavenothadtheprivilege(权利)ofhavingchildrenofmyown,buthopeonedaytohavethissourceofhappiness.Ihaveseveralsiblings(兄弟)whoarepartaking(分享)ofthisjoy,Iseethelovetheyhavefortheirchildrenandlikewise(同样)thelovebeingreturned.Toachildhappinesscanbethesimplejoyfromplayingwithanewfriendorevenanewtoy.Youngchildrentendtofindhappinessmucheasierthanteens(少年)oradults.Thereareseveralsourcesofhappiness,sometemporary(暂时),othersmorelongterm.Teensseemtofindhappinessspendingtimewiththeirfriendsorpeers(伙伴).Adultslikewise(同样)seekhappinessfromtheirfriendsorhobbies(兴趣).Onesourceofhappinessformeisclassic(古典)cars.Ilovetolookatalltypesofoldcarsandtrucks,bothrestoredandunreturned.Isoldmy1949GMCpickupinJanuaryof2002soIcanmoveandmarrymyfinance.IwasmarriedonMarch28,2002,whichletmepartakeofagreatnewhappinessandnewchapterofmylife.OnMarch22,2004Mywonderfulwifeletmepurchaseanewproject,a1955firstseries3/4tonpickup.Wheredowegotofindtrueorfullhappiness?FullhappinessesfromourLordandSavior,JesusChrist.Intheworldtodaythereissomuchevil,somanythingsthatcausepeopleremorse,ifsomeonedoesnotstayfocused,thenitiseasytofallintodepressionorhatred.

Happiness

1.Whetheroneishappyornotisdecidedbyhisfeeling.Anyonecanbehappyorunhappy.Trueachievementliesinourstrugglingtowardshappiness.However,itseemsquitestrangetomanypeoplethatwemakeanefforttobehappy.Wejustassumethatit’sthefeelingwhichesasaresultofgoodthingsbroughttous.

2.Tobehappy,weshouldtrytodothreethings:Firstly,weshouldtrytorealizethatunhappythingsalsoexistinothers’live.Secondly,weshouldtrytogetridofsuchimagination.Thirdly,weshouldtrytoexplorewhetheracquiringourlostthingswillreallymakeushappy.Astothelostthings,therebeingmanychoices,wecangetitagain,replaceit,fetitorfocusonthethingswhatwehavenow.Italldependsonourselves.

3.Tobehappy,weshouldtrytoavoidparingwithothers,imagingtobeperfectorworryingaboutlosingtitle.Therefore,ifwecanpayattentiontoallthesethingsabove,Ibelievethatwecanbehappyfinally.

Doyoudesiretobehappy?Whenaskedthisquestion,nearlyallpeoplewillgivetheanswer“yes”withouthesitation.Nevertheless,whatishappiness?Andwhat

Istheessentialfactortoinfluencehappiness?Virtuallyhappinessisakindoffeelingandemotion,whichcanbeobtainedbytheendeavorofourselves.Whetherapersonishappyornotismostlydecidedbyhisattitudetowardslife.

Tobehappy,firstly,weshouldtrytounderstandthatlifeisnoteasyatalltoallofus.Difficultiesandpressureexisteverywhereduringourprocessofmakingaliving.Itisunnecessarytoplainaboutitandevenbeepessimistic.secondly,itisimportantforustoconfrontourlifewithrightattitude,tobeactiveandgrateful.Inspiteofsufferingfromdisasters,insteadofbeingsadandnegative,weshouldtrytomaintainthefaiththattomorrowwillbeanotherday.Weoftenhearsomepeoplesaying"Ihavenochoicenow."However,thisistotallywrong.Infact,atthismoment,westillhaveachoice,tobehappyorunhappy.

Meanwhile,tobehappy,wehavetopayattentiontotwoimportantpoints.Oneisthatweshouldnottrytobuildupourownhappinessonshebasisofothers＇misery,becausethatisnotrealhappy.Theotheristhatwe＇dbetternottopursuithappinessmerelyfortheaimofbeinghappy.Ifwedoso,wewilllosemorethanwhatwehavegot.

Aboveall,nomatterwhatourlifewillbealike,weshouldtakeanactiveattitudetowardslife.Don＇ttakeeverythingfranted.Feelingourlifewithagratefulemotionandbeingopen-minded,inthatcase,wecanbehappy..