做一个更好的倾听者(Become a Better Listener)
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itisquiteimporlanttobeagoodlistener.effectivelisteningismorethansimplyavoidingthebadhabitofinterruptingotherswhiletheyarespeaking.it'sbeingcontenttolistentotheentirethoughtofsomeoneratherthanwaitingimpatientlyforyourchancetorespond.
slowingdownyourresponsesandbeingabetterlisteneraidsyouinbeingamoreamiableperson.asyouwaitforthepersonyouaremunicatingwithtofinish,asyousimplylistenmoreintentlytowhatisbeingsaid,youwillfeelmorerelaxed,andsowillthepeopleyouaretalkingto.notonlywillbeingabetterlistenermakeyouamorepatientperson,butitwillalsoimproveyourrelationshipwithothersbecauseeveryonelovestotalktosomeonewhotrulylistenstowhattheyaresaying.
itisquiteeasyforyoutobeabetterlistener.aslongasyoufetyourselfandimagineyourselfinthespeaker'sexperiencetounderstandtheemotionbehindthewords,andthengiveyourappropriateresponsesslowly,youwillbeanendearedlistener.